Post by estes on Mar 3, 2010 13:57:54 GMT -5
This article right here is the reason why marriage is so DEFILED, DESECRATED, and DISHONORABLE in the first place. Here is an article I came across while reading a post from NY Daily News:
Mo’Nique’s Secret To a Happy Marriage: Let Him Cheat
Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010
In an interview with ABC’s Barbara Walters, which is set to air on Sunday (Mar. 7), comedienne/actress Monique says the secret to longevity in her marriage is to allow her husband, Sidney Hicks, to stray.
“Could Sid have sex outside of his marriage with me? Yes. That’s not a deal-breaker,” she told Walters. “That’s not something that would make us say, ‘Pack your things and let’s end the marriage.’ We’ve been best friends for over 25 years, and we truly know who we are. Oftentimes, people get into marriages and they don’t know who they’re laying next to. I’m very comfortable and secure with my husband.”
Unlike many females who get married with unrealistic fantasies of what married life is supposed to be, Mo’Nique knows that a man is going to do what he was put on earth to do; and that is to populate the earth. It’s in the Bible and it goes against nature to expect a man with a healthy sexual appetite to put out for only one female his entire adult life.
Humans are the only species on earth with unrealistic viewpoints on sex. Rather than follow the rules of nature (to be fruitful and multiply) humans follow our hearts and beliefs, which are sometimes inconsistent with nature.
Asking a man not to creep is like asking him not to eat, sleep or breathe. A study shows that men think about sex on average of every 7 minutes. It’s doubtful that he’s thinking about his wife every 7 minutes.
Some people believe that disgraced golfer Tiger Woods would not be under fire for having sex with 20 women outside of his marriage if he hadn’t gotten married in the first place.
Does that mean that it’s okay for a man to violate his marriage vows? Only if the wife agrees with it — as in Mo’Nique and Sidney’s case. If she doesn’t agree, then it’s best to dissolve the marriage and go their separate ways.
Of course, Mo’Nique has a few tricks to keep her hubby from straying, and that includes her infamously unshaven gams.
“He loves the hairy legs,” Mo says, “and if Sid likes the hairy legs, there you go.”
She even explains to Walters why she chooses to go au naturel: “I tried shaving one time, and it was so uncomfortable and painful. I said never again would I do that to myself.” Besides, says Mo’Nique, “I’m 42 and I’m very hairy.”
Source: NY Daily News
Here is the link to this article : www.nydailynews.com/gossip/2010/03/03/2010-03-03_monique_says_hubby_sidney_hicks_allowed_to_cheat_loves_her_hairy_legs_in_candid_.html
You know, it's really sad how she uses the Bible (and I use that term "Uses" loosely) and twist the very meaning of GOD's word and intentions of marriage to defend herself. This is what I got from reading the Bible concerning sex and marriage, please correct me if I'm wrong or these verses don't mean EXACTLY what they mean....
HEBREWS 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. (sexually immoral)
Honorable is defined as ": a showing of usually merited respect or a keen sense of ethical conduct or suggests a firm holding to codes of right behavior and the guidance of a high sense of honor and duty." (Cheating is neither of these)
Undefiled is defined as - "immaculate: free from stain or blemish or uncorrupted." (Cheating is neither of these)
whoremongers is described as - "A frequent customer of whores; A procurer of whores; a pimp." (To me it sounds like Mo'Nique is prostituting her husband out to other women)
Adultery is defined as "extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations." (This is what Mo'Nique and her husband are allowing to go on in there Marriage)
Immoral is defined (with examples) as deliberately violating accepted principles of right and wrong or; base: not adhering to ethical or moral principles; "base and unpatriotic motives"; "a base, degrading way of life"; "cheating is dishonorable"; "they considered colonialism immoral"; "unethical practices in handling public funds."
Keep in mind GOD is judging these people.
I can't believe Mo'Nique is trying to use the Bible to support the very thing that GOD looks DOWN UPON! And so many people will take to this like a bee takes to honey because they want a "GREAT" marriage and a "LOVING" lasting relationship. CHEATING IS NONE OF THIS! It's a LIE! I don't know what kind of marriage they are involved in but it's not the one my GOD (Jesus Christ or the Father at that matter) approve of.
1 CORINTHIANS 7:9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. ( They look like they can't contain themselves regardless!) Basically if you're going to have sex, get married! (but at the same time, don't get married just to have sex cause then you are treading in deep water for other reasons other than the right reasons.)
MATTHEW 5:27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery... (Too late for this verse)
I wonder why Monique felt the need to quote be fruitful and multiply but none of these other verses that set the guidelines for being fruitful and multiplying? (She must be one of those "pick-and-choose" people who go through the Bible and pick-and-choose what they feel they want to believe and what they don't want to believe.
I also felt like she slapped Christians in the face when she said "Rather than follow the rules of nature (to be fruitful and multiply) humans follow our hearts and beliefs, which are sometimes inconsistent with nature."
So because we believe in GOD and believe his words firmly that gets in the way of what "Nature" wants us to do? Nature has seniority over GOD's will and commandments? (I THINK NOT!)
She must have Humans mistaken for beasts of the fields. They do that because GOD instructed them to do that. (animals DO NOT have morals and values and guidelines like GOD has set for us humans)
The Bible is so discerning on the grounds of marriage. I could go on about this all day but I don't want to take up your time. When I read this article I was lead to bring it to you all's attention.
Be blessed and watch out for this kind of foolishness and wickedness. Satan is busy.
I don't care what anyone tells you, cheating or anything along those lines inside or outside of a marriage is WRONG! and GOD will judge you if you do not repent and turn away.
Ezekiel 18:30 Therefore I will judge you, O house of Israel, every one according to his ways, saith the Lord GOD. Repent, and turn yourselves from all your transgressions; so iniquity shall not be your ruin.
Mo’Nique’s Secret To a Happy Marriage: Let Him Cheat
Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010
In an interview with ABC’s Barbara Walters, which is set to air on Sunday (Mar. 7), comedienne/actress Monique says the secret to longevity in her marriage is to allow her husband, Sidney Hicks, to stray.
“Could Sid have sex outside of his marriage with me? Yes. That’s not a deal-breaker,” she told Walters. “That’s not something that would make us say, ‘Pack your things and let’s end the marriage.’ We’ve been best friends for over 25 years, and we truly know who we are. Oftentimes, people get into marriages and they don’t know who they’re laying next to. I’m very comfortable and secure with my husband.”
Unlike many females who get married with unrealistic fantasies of what married life is supposed to be, Mo’Nique knows that a man is going to do what he was put on earth to do; and that is to populate the earth. It’s in the Bible and it goes against nature to expect a man with a healthy sexual appetite to put out for only one female his entire adult life.
Humans are the only species on earth with unrealistic viewpoints on sex. Rather than follow the rules of nature (to be fruitful and multiply) humans follow our hearts and beliefs, which are sometimes inconsistent with nature.
Asking a man not to creep is like asking him not to eat, sleep or breathe. A study shows that men think about sex on average of every 7 minutes. It’s doubtful that he’s thinking about his wife every 7 minutes.
Some people believe that disgraced golfer Tiger Woods would not be under fire for having sex with 20 women outside of his marriage if he hadn’t gotten married in the first place.
Does that mean that it’s okay for a man to violate his marriage vows? Only if the wife agrees with it — as in Mo’Nique and Sidney’s case. If she doesn’t agree, then it’s best to dissolve the marriage and go their separate ways.
Of course, Mo’Nique has a few tricks to keep her hubby from straying, and that includes her infamously unshaven gams.
“He loves the hairy legs,” Mo says, “and if Sid likes the hairy legs, there you go.”
She even explains to Walters why she chooses to go au naturel: “I tried shaving one time, and it was so uncomfortable and painful. I said never again would I do that to myself.” Besides, says Mo’Nique, “I’m 42 and I’m very hairy.”
Source: NY Daily News
Here is the link to this article : www.nydailynews.com/gossip/2010/03/03/2010-03-03_monique_says_hubby_sidney_hicks_allowed_to_cheat_loves_her_hairy_legs_in_candid_.html
You know, it's really sad how she uses the Bible (and I use that term "Uses" loosely) and twist the very meaning of GOD's word and intentions of marriage to defend herself. This is what I got from reading the Bible concerning sex and marriage, please correct me if I'm wrong or these verses don't mean EXACTLY what they mean....
HEBREWS 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. (sexually immoral)
Honorable is defined as ": a showing of usually merited respect or a keen sense of ethical conduct or suggests a firm holding to codes of right behavior and the guidance of a high sense of honor and duty." (Cheating is neither of these)
Undefiled is defined as - "immaculate: free from stain or blemish or uncorrupted." (Cheating is neither of these)
whoremongers is described as - "A frequent customer of whores; A procurer of whores; a pimp." (To me it sounds like Mo'Nique is prostituting her husband out to other women)
Adultery is defined as "extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations." (This is what Mo'Nique and her husband are allowing to go on in there Marriage)
Immoral is defined (with examples) as deliberately violating accepted principles of right and wrong or; base: not adhering to ethical or moral principles; "base and unpatriotic motives"; "a base, degrading way of life"; "cheating is dishonorable"; "they considered colonialism immoral"; "unethical practices in handling public funds."
Keep in mind GOD is judging these people.
I can't believe Mo'Nique is trying to use the Bible to support the very thing that GOD looks DOWN UPON! And so many people will take to this like a bee takes to honey because they want a "GREAT" marriage and a "LOVING" lasting relationship. CHEATING IS NONE OF THIS! It's a LIE! I don't know what kind of marriage they are involved in but it's not the one my GOD (Jesus Christ or the Father at that matter) approve of.
1 CORINTHIANS 7:9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. ( They look like they can't contain themselves regardless!) Basically if you're going to have sex, get married! (but at the same time, don't get married just to have sex cause then you are treading in deep water for other reasons other than the right reasons.)
MATTHEW 5:27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery... (Too late for this verse)
I wonder why Monique felt the need to quote be fruitful and multiply but none of these other verses that set the guidelines for being fruitful and multiplying? (She must be one of those "pick-and-choose" people who go through the Bible and pick-and-choose what they feel they want to believe and what they don't want to believe.
I also felt like she slapped Christians in the face when she said "Rather than follow the rules of nature (to be fruitful and multiply) humans follow our hearts and beliefs, which are sometimes inconsistent with nature."
So because we believe in GOD and believe his words firmly that gets in the way of what "Nature" wants us to do? Nature has seniority over GOD's will and commandments? (I THINK NOT!)
She must have Humans mistaken for beasts of the fields. They do that because GOD instructed them to do that. (animals DO NOT have morals and values and guidelines like GOD has set for us humans)
The Bible is so discerning on the grounds of marriage. I could go on about this all day but I don't want to take up your time. When I read this article I was lead to bring it to you all's attention.
Be blessed and watch out for this kind of foolishness and wickedness. Satan is busy.
I don't care what anyone tells you, cheating or anything along those lines inside or outside of a marriage is WRONG! and GOD will judge you if you do not repent and turn away.
Ezekiel 18:30 Therefore I will judge you, O house of Israel, every one according to his ways, saith the Lord GOD. Repent, and turn yourselves from all your transgressions; so iniquity shall not be your ruin.